We've got 10 great ways to put some zing into your lovemaking!

1. Enhance your Foreplay

Many couples find porn to be a turn on, but most porn only caters to one sex, and it's often offensive to women.

You'll find a few good porn sites on the net that couples can enjoy. One of these is Kara's Adult Playground, a megasite that many women enjoy. Visit this site together and use it as foreplay, it will make a huge difference in the bedroom! 

2. Introduce Sex Toys into Lovemaking

Women who have trouble orgasming through straight sex (and this is over 50% of us!) usually have better success with a vibrator. But some women still feel nervous about introducing their "special friend" into the relationship. Rest assured, it's a good idea, especially when you explain to your man that it means you can come when making love. Even those who feel "threatened" by it should soften once they see the results.

If you're after your first sex toy, I recommend you head over to Bedroomsports. They've got a wide range of vibrators and other sex toys, and they guarantee secure shopping and discreet delivery every time.

3. Reconsider Adult Videos

If you've been turned off by big hair and too much makeup in regular porn films, you're going to love Candida Royalle's Femme videos. This is a fabulous range of porn films made for women. This means you get high production values, actual storylines and sensual sex which will guarantee you a good night in bed. The films explore female fantasies, and they're always told from a woman's point of view. Well worth checking out. Or visit Porn Movies for Women for a comprehensive list of female-friendly porn movies.

4. Learn How to Ejaculate

Yes, it's true. Women can ejaculate at the point of orgasm. Except it's not sperm, it's a special fluid similar to prostate fluid, and women report having the most intense orgasms when they ejaculate.

You can find out more about the g spot and female ejaculation here.

5. Discover New Positions.

It's easy to fall into a rut and use the same sexual position each time you have sex. This can lead to boredom and subsequent problems in the bedroom.

Sex Positions Guide helps you break out of the rut by offering over 100 sex position pictures and more than 30 instructional videos. Every possible sexual position has been described in detail with clear instructions on how to do it. It also has lessons on how to perform Tantric sex, oral sex and genital massage.

6. Give Your Lover an Erotic Gift

Spice up an anniversary by giving a naughty present. This could be any of the great sex toys featured on this page, or at Bedroomsports

7. Go All Moulin Rouge

Has your man been mesmerised by the Lady Marmalade video featuring 4 women in Moulin Rouge lingerie? Why not get his attention back by getting sexed-up yourself? Surprise him when he comes home by wearing the sexiest lingerie you own, packing on red lipstick and pouting your way around the bedroom?

You'll find sexy lingerie and other novelty costumes at Bedroomsports

8. Enhance His Best Asset

We all know it's not the size, it's what you do with it that counts, but many men are still nervous about the size of their penis. It may interfere with their confidence during lovemaking. One way to overcome this (without expensive therapy!!) is to encourage him to enhance his penis using one of the available natural methods.

9. Play Games

Adult games are wonderful for letting go of inhibitions and exploring each other's fantasies. Because the game provides an excuse, it's easier to overcome embarrassment and provides for opportunities to make suggestions you'd never have dared to make before.

The Erogenous Zone asks you to name your desires and requires your partner to carry them out. Around the World in Bed is a game of sexual positions.

10. Discover More Great Sex Tips and Techniques

A site that offer ways to improve your sex life:

Sexy Adult Videos

Candida Royalle's The Gift
$29.95
When Liz returns to sell her grandmother's home, little does she know that she will leave with the most precious gift one could receive - a gift of sensual love and unleashed passion from the other side of life, one that will heal Liz's troubled relationship, and that of every other couple that encounters it.

Candida Royalle's Revelations $29.95

Ariel's world is sterile and grey. Creative expression is looked upon with suspicion and sex is only for procreation. Ariel follows the rules as best she can - until one day she makes a discovery that will change her world forever. There, kept alive forever on video tapes secretly made by loving couples, are the lives of those who lived in a different time. What does a woman do when she discovers something she's been denied all her life? What does she do with her sexual awakening in a world where it is forbidden enough to warrant arrest and state imprisonment?

Great Sex Toys

Alexa's Nubby Satisfier $14.95
Uniquely contoured scoop tipped vibe with sensually noduled head for ultra-powerful multi-speed Clitterific pleasure. 2 "C" Batteries (not included).

Finger Tickler
Quiet powerful micro-technology at your fingertips. Comfortably fits any finger. This discreet massager provides an incredible range of possibilities for stimulating any erogenous zone. Batteries included.

Cuddly Koala
An orgasmic pump specifically designed for her. The Koala bear nestles over the vagina providing intense clitoral and vaginal stimulation from its vibrating and pumping action. Powered by the multi-speed Micro Egg. Includes lube! Requires 2AA batteries (not included).

Juli Ashton's Pink Pocket Rocket
Is that a Rocket in your pocket, or are you just happy to see him? This ultra silent massager is incredibly powerful. Comes with a 4 inch extension sleeve with fluttering action.The light weight design makes it the ultimate traveling companion. Simply the best mini massager!

Love swing

The Love Swing is a fully adjustable sex harness for a swingin' time! Hundreds of combinations of positions for one or two people. Features include fully adjustable hanging hardware for different heights and bounce. Fully adjustable extra-wide, ballistic weave nylon straps for maximum comfort (fits all sizes). Soft padded supports. E-Z installation, no tools needed. The love Swing can support you and your lover!

You can find more great sex toys at Bedroomsports

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