We've got 10 great ways to put some zing into your lovemaking!

1. Enhance your Foreplay

Many couples find porn to be a turn on, but most porn only caters to one sex, and it's often offensive to women.

You'll find a few good porn sites on the net that couples can enjoy. One of these is Kara's Adult Playground, a megasite that many women enjoy. Visit this site together and use it as foreplay, it will make a huge difference in the bedroom! 

2. Introduce Sex Toys into Lovemaking

Women who have trouble orgasming through straight sex (and this is over 50% of us!) usually have better success with a vibrator. But some women still feel nervous about introducing their "special friend" into the relationship. Rest assured, it's a good idea, especially when you explain to your man that it means you can come when making love. Even those who feel "threatened" by it should soften once they see the results.

3. Reconsider Adult Videos

If you've been turned off by big hair and too much makeup in regular porn films, you're going to love Candida Royalle's Femme videos. This is a fabulous range of porn films made for women. This means you get high production values, actual storylines and sensual sex which will guarantee you a good night in bed. The films explore female fantasies, and they're always told from a woman's point of view. Well worth checking out. Or visit Porn Movies for Women for a comprehensive list of female-friendly porn movies.

4. Learn How to Ejaculate

Yes, it's true. Women can ejaculate at the point of orgasm. Except it's not sperm, it's a special fluid similar to prostate fluid, and women report having the most intense orgasms when they ejaculate.

You can find out more about the g spot and female ejaculation here.

5. Discover New Positions.

It's easy to fall into a rut and use the same sexual position each time you have sex. This can lead to boredom and subsequent problems in the bedroom.

6. Give Your Lover an Erotic Gift

Spice up an anniversary by giving a naughty present.

7. Go All Moulin Rouge

Has your man been mesmerised by the Lady Marmalade video featuring 4 women in Moulin Rouge lingerie? Why not get his attention back by getting sexed-up yourself? Surprise him when he comes home by wearing the sexiest lingerie you own, packing on red lipstick and pouting your way around the bedroom?

8. Enhance His Best Asset

We all know it's not the size, it's what you do with it that counts, but many men are still nervous about the size of their penis. It may interfere with their confidence during lovemaking. One way to overcome this (without expensive therapy!!) is to encourage him to enhance his penis using one of the available natural methods.

9. Play Games

Adult games are wonderful for letting go of inhibitions and exploring each other's fantasies. Because the game provides an excuse, it's easier to overcome embarrassment and provides for opportunities to make suggestions you'd never have dared to make before.

10. Discover More Great Sex Tips and Techniques

We recommend:

Candida Royalle's Stud Hunters (2003)

This is the fictional story of erotic film director Carla Divine and her star, Giselle Lorngette as they head to New York City to hunt for the perfect new stud for their next movie. Dozens of guys show up to audition, but things don’t go so smoothly as Carla tries desperately to keep her wannabe studs on the set and off the casting couch! Things spin hilariously out of control, but in the end, the director has her revenge in the most enviable of ways! This satirical look at the adult entertainment business spoofs every aspect of XXX, from backstage shenanigans to the ego trips, from fans to paparazzi… and even Candida Royale herself!

Starring: Alexandra Silk Ava Vincent Brian Bishop Johnny Dannon Leila Swan Marcus Oralius Tara Indiana
Directed by: Candida Royale
Studio: Adam and Eve

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Gamelink: DVD